Pornography Myths and Facts: Myth #2

Author: Minister Grok

In my time as a therapist, I have worked with many who struggle with sexual issues. Whether it is sexual addiction, Sexual abusing, or other devient sexual behaviors; There is always one underlying factor......Pornography.  When probing into how each person got entangled by pornography, I hear many of the same reasons to justify their use of porn. Here are a few of the most common reasons:

Myth #2 -  The Porn actors love sex and love making pornographic films.

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Myth #2 -  The Porn actors love sex and love making pornographic films.

One of the most common distortions people use to justify their porn use is that the actors in the movies love what they do and are just people who love having sex. Although many put on a convincing show, the world of pornography is anything other than glamorous and fun.

Researcher Ashley Levin states,  "Women in pornographic movies are often raped and forced to act in degrading ways. But viewers of these films come to believe that these women enjoy these acts, leading men into believing that this is the way that all women like to be treated."

Drugs are prevelant in the porn industry. Tanya Burleson, formerly known as Jersey Jaxin, says, “Guys are punching you in the face. You get ripped. Your insides can come out of you. It’s never ending. You’re viewed as an object—not as a human with a spirit. People do drugs because they can’t deal with the way they’re being treated.” Remember these actresses work long days on a shoot and have sex for abnormal amounts of time and are subjected to dehumanizing sexual acts. 

Fact:88% of scenes in porn films involve physical aggression. 


Porn Actress Belladonna states "“I like to hide — hide everything, you know?... And I'm not happy... I don't like myself at all... My whole entire body feels it when I'm doing it and... I feel so — so gross.”


My first movie I was treated very rough by 3 guys. They pounded on me, gagged me with their penises, and tossed me around like I was a ball! I was sore, hurting and could barely walk. My insides burned and hurt so badly. I could barely pee and to try to have a bowel movement was out of the question. I was hurting so bad from the physical abuse from these 3 male porn stars! - Alexa Milano


“I am Brenn Wyson former kink gay porn star. What I can say? What goes on behind closed doors is a lot a sex abuse in way of transmitting HIV, HEP and whatever STD will snake there way in the the doors of Kink.com. The stars working at kink.com, making money will never disclose their bad behavior and the porn stars they throw to the trash. The drugs the lies the penis injections, which is against the law in San Fran to give to a porn star. But the are sure willing to stick your genitals to get the job done. I know what goes on behind closed doors and its sick, unsafe and your life is one the line. Trust me Kink.com will talk shit about you If you have a mouth to speak. I know because It happened to me. Its has taken me a long time to get my real career back and make an honest living. You never want to become a porn star because all the main porn companies will lie to you. Now I have to deal with Hep C, As a boxer this has been a damper on my life. I’m still a fighter and have recreated my life. Hopefully I can redirect others into stepping on the devils tale in the palace of porn."


So there you have it, straight from people who have experienced it. Just remember the people you are watching having sex have more than likely been a victim of rape,molestation,incest,child porn, physical abuse, neglect and maybe even drug abuse. Not so glamourous is it?  And when you purchase or even watch porn, you are indirectly abusing the actors and contributing to their misery.

-Minister Grok

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